1.
If your spouse should die tomorrow, would you be very happy you had a chance to meet him/her and to marry him/her?
2.
Are you able to share with your spouse your moments of weakness, failure, disappointment?
3.
Can you accept your spouse as she/he is instead of having several plans to redo him/her?
4.
Do your actions show you really care for your spouse?
5.
Does your face spontaneously break into a smile when you see your spouse?
6.
Would your spouse say you are a protector, that you know what his/her limitations are as a man/woman?
7.
Can you and your spouse tell each other honestly what you really want instead of using manipulation or games?
8.
Do you trust your spouse to solve his/her own problems?
9.
When you offend your spouse, do you usually admit you were wrong and seek his/her forgiveness?
10.
Would your spouse say you are a good example of what you would like him/her to be?
11.
Would your spouse say you enjoy being with him/her and sharing many of life’s experiences with him/her?
12.
Do you know what your spouse needs when he’s/she’s under stress or when he’s/she’s discouraged?
13.
Do you enjoy introducing your spouse to your friends or family?
14.
Would your spouse say you praise him/her at least once a day?
15.
Would your spouse say you are open to his/her corrections?
16.
Do you believe you know at least five of your spouse’s major needs and how to meet those needs in a skillful way?
17.
Are you able to learn from your spouse and value what she/he says?
18.
Do you admit to your spouse you have problems and need his/her comfort?
19.
Do you make your spouse feel good about himself/herself?
20.
Can your spouse get angry at you with your thinking less of him/her?
21.
Would your spouse say you create interest in her/him when you share things you consider important?
22.
Do you encourage your spouse to develop his/her full potential?
23.
Do you believe that you could live a full and happy life without your spouse?
24.
Do you value the same things in your spouse that you value in yourself?
25.
Would your spouse say you are a good listener?
26.
Does your spouse feel she’s more important than anyone or anything else in your life?
